The simple answer for me is yes, I need to hear these things on occasion. I need to feel wanted/needed. Does that make me insecure? No I don't think so, I think it makes me human. I believe we all want to feel loved, wanted and needed. To different degrees maybe but all want it.

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Perfectly said.... I need to hear it but not all the time & I am secure in my relationship with my DH, DD and other family members. I also like to get a pat on the back at work just so I know I am still doing a good job but overall I know how valuable I am in my team.