Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou(if i had started a similar thread i would have been barrel rolled for it not coming out right ). I to get the heebie jeebies seeing mums asking for sympathy about their own choices.
Please be confident in what you choose. if your not sure, hold off(generally its ok to wait a few hours or days to make a decision)
Only you and your family have to live with your choices and when you publish them you may get opposition to it but YOU have to have control.