I think I have good resilience... good empathy and good self awareness.

Need to work on my worrying! oh yeah, big time. Strangely, I am quite good at looking onthe bright side of things, I can be very optimistic and have a good outlook onmost things. But there are some things that the worry-dog just gets its teeth into & will not let go, and it becomes a vicious circle. Example - I worry about skin cancer, and would rather just not look in the mirror, rather than do self-exams on my skin. Stupid I know but I can't cope with the panic that rises in me.

Lack of self control & self discipline - although that is hard because there are times when I can really 'knuckle down' there are other times I struggle. Diet is a good example of this for me - I have had a tendency to indulge since I was a child - whole other story - prior to falling PG I went on Tony Ferguson, which is really strict - and I managed quite well, but since falling PG I have been back to my old tricks. I just can't walk that middle ground, I can either do the really tough way or the really easy way...nothing in between.

And the other one - I'm not sure if this falls under any of your categories Bathsheba? but it's insecurity. I am sooo insecure. I can relate it back to why, I just still struggle to get past it, kwim? I know that's its a legacy of my childhood... if I know why I am like this then why isn't it easier to change? But yeah I am very insecure, I worry about people leaving me (abandonment issues ), also what do people really think of me and what are they really thinking and am I good enough... all that.

The next big question is... what do you do to work on these things?