The first thing that comes to mind is WORRY, I'm an expert at it lol. I am working at it though and can see some improvement. some of the things that I say to myself now are...can I do anything ?, or just wait and see what happens! I have noticed that I have wasted alot of energy and time worrying over something that never happens.

Self control- I self indulge way to much whether it is with comfort food or buying something to make me happy in the short term. I put this down to having frustrations that I can't resolve easily so I just give myself a quick happy fix to see me through the day

I have been told by many a person that I am too hard on myself, I would agree that I am very self critical, and can forgive faults in others but not in myself.

On the up side I would say I am a very loyal and loving family member and friend. I do not seek conflict but will stand up for what I think is right. I am aware of peoples personal space and respect it.