I am glad to hear you are planning on you time darling woman! All women need it - it's not a treat it's a necessity!
Well I don't have much child free time AT ALL any more. Finny doesn't go to his Dad & the girls only see the FW for 2 hours a week. So my time is very sparse.
I wrangle child care for a couple hours of a massage a month.
I get my nails done - but usually have Immy with me!
I am writing a book (aah I don't think I've announced that one!) but I do that amidst the cyclonic existence that is my house!
I meditate twice a day - morning and night and nobody is to interrupt unless there is a fire or a man in a trench coat at the door...
I coffee with friends (a lot!) but I always have Immy...
This Friday we are having a Sex in the City night - dinner and a movie in our finest attire... I am Carrie... (of course!)
I am very social I have friends over a lot - we do dinner -afternoon tea... I rarely go out at night as I have too many kids and they don't much like being left after the famiy issues wer've had.

I get very very very tired - but mostly I am happy and content. I talk a lot on the phone. I Belly Belly. I meet up with friends but my kids are part of my life so they are usually along for the trot.

My luxury is to go to chenrezig for a meal, a catch up and a time in the Gompa - or overnight but again I've got Immy with me.

Sometimes a friend looks after Immy and I do the hair dresser and lunch with a friend - that's blissful!

I love photography and Immy, Gloria and I sometimes hit the road after school drop off and I snap away at old galvanised iron sheds...

I have a gorgeous woman who lives in a little cottage on my property and she sometimes watches the kids so I can go and listen to some music and have a meal with friends in town at the Upfront Club... That's heavenly...

I am a big believer in looking after my spirit.