Thanks ladies.
My sis had a baby in dec with a caesarian. i don't know how she did it. She said she is only after 5 months able to do everything, i'm thinking, great, my back is killing me and i want to get out and play with my boy. waiting is such a hard game to play.
She said the same also, your pain or your baby, the baby of course, you ignore the pain and go right through it and do what you have to do.
I admire each and every one of you who have been through it.