LOL Nelle - who would have thunk - 6 months ago I was wondering what the hell was wrong with me!! Now I feel like an expert on the topic!

Dreamer - if you have any questions I am happy to answer. There are many other girls on BB who can help as well so you know where to come.

Thanks for the help amysarah , I really appreciate it.

She has been to the doctor and has been aware of condition for some ten years. I think she must feel pain from teh very beginning since she seems a little agitated even though she persist that we make love. I didnt know much about endometriosis and so I had no idea what she has been putting herself though just to please me. I have to admit it has made me love her even more, but it seems that there is ways that we can enjoy ourselves and not cause her pain. Would it help to use a lubricant with anaesthetic? There is no problem with that I hope? She seems to feel a deep pain as she describes it to me. She has some sharp pains in the beginning also which I think was caused with my impatience.

I think the first thing is to be very gentle from my perspective and then I will be able to evaluate her response.

Thanks again guys, much appreciated and its wonderful that a site exists to help with such an important issue, especially us guys who have no clue what it might feel like.