We have been TTC for years. I have had problems ever since the day I got my period. Daily nausea, pain so bad it can hurt to breathe & bleeding that goes on forverer are things that I have learnt to deal with in my everyday life. This time round was my forth lap. Over the years I have been diagnosed with PCOS, Endo & last lap confirmed I only have 1 working tube and other one is surrounded by scar tissue. I guess I don't really understand what all this means. My life has cruised along just fine & I am vey happy. I guess I just always thought nature would take it's course and I would just fall pregnant but lately I have thought, maybe I should be paying more attention to this and maybe it isn't going to just happen. I think having the gyno sit there and say to me would he like me to write the ref for ivf was a bit of a wake up of sorts. It made me think I have been cruising along having this great life, taking things as they come and now I am here. How did I get here?? iykwim.