Thanks heaps for the info everyone. Didn't have a great day today. Aidan was sooky and I tried him on the breast and we both ended up cranky and upset. So, I called the LC and got some more tips...tried them and still no luck I rang hubby crying and he came home from work to help. I honestly think that I cannot continue Bf'ing and am now going to express only. I'm not too happy but I got to do what's best without totally giving up on it.

Thanks everyone for your info! I really appreciate it hearing your experiences and how you coped with exclusively expressing. It seems like a huge effort bit from what you all tell me, its very much worth it