Jasp- congratulations on Arleas weight gain...thats fantastic!

I had to laugh at your response about feeling guilty...i also had been avoiding my LC's call and had been telling people i was still trying, but in actual fact haven't tried for most of this week. I fessed up to my LC and she actually was quite good, we both agreed that Chloe just isn't attaching and doesn't look like she will so to settle with expressing as that way my princess is still getting the good stuff and i am not stressed out trying to feed her! Like you said, every meal was becoming a screaming match and its too stressful, i wanna enjoy having a baby, not sit there crying all the time (which according to my DH, was starting to be a norm in our house!).

will keep popping in to see how everything is going!