Thanks for all your advise ladies, well I am still desperately wishing to BF so we still attempt it once a day or every second day just to see if we can get him on. Still no luck but at least I know I have expressed milk as back up then it's not so stressful as I know my little one will get fed. Oh and also we have now increased our feeds to 80mls every 3 hours during the day and he usually wakes me about every 4 hours on a night.

Have the in laws arriving today, hmmmm lets see what this stress does to my milk supply. I've noticed it's already started to drop, fingers crossed this visit isn't as bad as I have imagined it will be.

Hope all is going well with everyone else xo