i have been having the same dilemma only im trying to decide between 1 or 2. have decided to wait til Archie is 3 and decide then, that means that if we do have another one there will be a big gap but i know i wont be the kind of mother i want to be if i have a closer gap, i wont cope that well.

i am the same re newborns, they are magical creatures but i like them older so much more casue of the freedom probably - oh, and the sleep!

good luck with your decsion, i know it is an extremely difficult emotion one, whatever your decsion it will be the right decsion for your family.