lately I have been put in the position of a SAHM and yes i agree it is very hard. I get to have 5 child free hours a day at work, so i do get to get a break.

My Dad was strict with us as kids and to be yelled at and abused was a normal ocurence, I grew up petrified of my Dad and to this day I still am, although i must say age has mellowed him.
I hate to see the look in my kids eyes when i yell at them, i would hate for them to hate me the way I did my dad