Michelle, I agree with the others and don't think you're being mean at all. I've done exactly the same thing with my family. My Dad tried to tell me hw would come for the birth, my IL's want to come as well (but stay out of the Metro area meaning I have to go from hospital to them. Pft, As IF!) and my Grandma has offered as well! I've told them all that they can wait to be ASKED to come. And between all of us on BB, my Dad and IL's have buckley's and none of comming within the first 6 weeks! I'm thinking about my Grandma though...

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

MG