Hi Jackie

I'm a single mum, but not by choice. My ex partner left me when I was 8 weeks pregnant.

It is the hardest thing I have ever done in my life, but I also have great support in my Mum. Without a partner helping you can't just duck to the shop when you need to, if bubby is sleeping. Going out in the evening is really hard if you want to keep a good routine, running to the MCHN, Dr's, Paeds & Specialists. The list just keeps on going and going.

I guess you might think I am whinging or ungreatful, but Ella is the most important person in my life and nothing will ever change that. All the frustration and tiredness that I feel instantly disappears when she smiles, snuggles or says mum.

Your life as you know it now, will never be the same when your little one comes into the world. Motherhood is the hardest yet most rewarding job in the world.

If I could give you one piece of advise, it would be make sure you have a good support network. Sometimes you just need a break, even if it is only for 1 hour.

Good luck on your impending birth