YES.. all you have written about crystal children is my son to a T. His speech is not great, but yet we ALWAYS know what he wants or is trying to get across.
What you said about knowing when death or something was going to happen, gave me an answer to something he did on wednesday this week.... wed monring he walked up to me and rubbed my belly, like down low, where the baby would of been (we lost #3 last month).. anyhow, it had been over 5 weeks since the loss and as i hadnt had a period i thought oooooo, i wonder if i am pregnant again?! Anyway, that night i started bleeding, very heavy with intense pain. This had me at hospital by the next day and it turned out, i passed the baby from last month, yesterday. It was very traumatic... but now i know what he was doing or more so, WHY he did it.... he wasnt rubbing my belly for a new life, but more for the baby who was still there and was about to leave me. /crys
WOW. i love this.
As for my DD... she falls into alot of the catergory/traits of the indigo, she is just full of energy and we can never keep up. She struggles CONSTANTLY with abiding by what we ask of her, except she can follow rules such as hold hands to cross roads, etc but when it comes to things around the home, we find we have to ask or repeat ourselve's over 100 times (or so it feels) if not then bring some form of punishment into line, just to get her to listen. Just tonight i got that frustrated with her, because she has days where she will not listen to me or her father at all.... and she is so strong willed.
But then she has this very strong psychic side of her, that has her connecting with me and my mother in particular, in a deep emotional way. If i am upset at all, she 'feel's it... (maybe thats with all kids but i dont have to be with her for her to be upset when i am, same goes for my mum)...
So i don't know. She try's to parent us, and to control all situation's she is in. I have always wondered can this personality trait begin so early on, control.. or if it is her spiritual self. For example, at CC the other day, all the girls we washing there hands for afternoon tea, and one noticed some poo on the bathroom floor, all the girls stood around going "eeewwwww pooo ewwwww" you know cringing like little girls do etc etc.. DD walked up, looked at it, sighed.. went got some toilet paper, went back wipped it up and said "there its all gone. done ok" rolled her eyes and through it in the toilet... flushed..washed her hands and went and sat down.
I just stood there stunned. But yet so proud of her..... lol
She has a very loving, mothering nature... as per the example i suppose i just wrote.
She is VERY emotional. And we are really finding she really struggles in finding a way of controlling her emotion's. She feel's them so strongly.... very intense.. but then i am like that too...
what do you think? would love to hear your thoughts...




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