Know exaclty how you/DH feel! When I told my dad i was pregnant with Lily (parents are divorced) he would not talk to me or even acknowedge that i was pregnant for quite a few months. He never even told my uncle and cousins and so i thought that they knew, but then my dad's g/f said he hadn't told anyone. I was so mad and still can't really forgive him for it, it really hurt.