thread: Aren't we all good mothers?

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  1. #1
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    Apr 2009
    Clifton Springs, Geelong
    8

    Thumbs up No love = childcare?

    Great post, especially
    Nor do I look at someone else and think "She mustn't love her child because she puts him in childcare".
    ...got me thinking. My 3yo is in daycare 3 days/week, I'm at home full time with my 9 month old. When I tell people this, they often don't know what to say! Around here, it seems childcare is a last resort, and something you hate putting your kid into. My son is quite happy there, though, and so am I. I'm a happier mum when I'm with him and I do love my son(s) to bits. I know if I had them both at home all day, every day, I'd completely loose it! We do go to playgroup etc, but still!!
    I guess I just wanted to say, I know exactly what you mean by that particular line. And I think by putting my son in childcare, I'm being a better mum than I would be otherwise.

    Christine

    PS: ...and who IS "perfect" anyway? No one can do everything, and if they say they can, they're lying. That's my opinion!

  2. #2
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    Jun 2012
    11

    words of wisdom

  3. #3
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    Apr 2013
    Seven Oaks NSW
    18

    Amen to that

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Sep 2005
    In the middle of nowhere
    9,362

    Here's a blast from the past. You wrote this just a month before my world changed that first time. It's still so true.