It's looking increasingly likely that my 15-year-old DSD will be coming to live with DP, me and what will be our 12-month-old DD.

While I will still be DD's primary carer, I do think teenagers should pitch in too as part of the family.

I'm just wondering what other families have seen as appropriate help with siblings ie. do you ask them to give a bottle here and there, change a nappy occasionally, play with siblings while you're cooking dinner etc. etc.

I don't want her to feel like she's an unpaid nanny but equally a bit of help here and there is all part of being a family IMO.