My Xander has just started this, and the weird thing is, through all the upheaval of moving 3000kms, settling into a new house (and new state) and having a new baby sister (and visiting her in hossy for 2 months) he was great. Now he's awful. Especially bedtimes.HE tells me "Mum you cant leave me here, dont do this to me, you just dont love me..." And im lost for words, i dont know what to do!! And when he has tantrums int he shops now, she physically punches me in the face, not just flailing around in a hissy fit, fully punching me... I dont know what to do either?!At the moment, i just ignore him when he'[s in a "mood"... maybe its something in the air across the whole of oz...