Thanks ladies.

DH doesnt really like little babies, he prefers them when they are a bit older. Maybe he will change his mind then? Also I had terrible m/s with both pregs for the first 18-20 weeks where I needed to be hospitalised, and he doesnt want to see me go through that again.

We did talk about the positives and negatives last night, and unfortunately he can only see negatives at this stage. I hope he changes as the baby gets older. I guess it is hard for him atm because Nathan is so young and does take so much of my attention.

I know he is a good husband, and I know he still could change his mind because he did say that it isnt a definite no at this stage. I guess I just wish he and I felt the same about this.