DG. i could have written that post myself, almost word for word. but we had two girls.

it took 7 yrs, but dh changed his mind. i didnt nag him or guilt trip him or anything like that over the years, but i did still mention it from time to time. One day he realized that it really was still important to me. and he said he was happy to try again.

just a pity it took him so long.. cos now i am OLD. and his big concern was that i would then want another one to keep this one company... no thanks.

you just dont know what the future holds. he may come round in a year or two ... or seven...