Nah, it wasn't you that got me to reply again Mel!

thinking back, i think it was fionas who said about her DH and DSD saying it on every phone call - given their relationship for long periods of time was over the phone with her living o/s, it makes sense that they've developed ways of expressing their love verbally over the phone. yup, it might be a bit of a habit now, but it's no less meaningful i'm sure.

i think as long as your love for your children is obvious to them, and you are able to help them express their emotions as well, the form that it takes doesn't matter!!