Michelle :hugs:
I know just how you must be feeling at the moment, as my IL's arent worth bothering with either.
When my DH told my MIL (without my permission of course), she went white as a sheet, and all she said was "oh when"
And I begged her not to tell anyone else as I hadnt told my mother either,,,,,,yet she blabbed all over town to anyone who would listen. The very next time I spoke to her, she asked if she had told me that she had told my SIL#3, I said no,,,,she then went into great detail about how my SIL was absolutely crushed, and cried and cried and cried etc etc about my pregnancy, (way to load me up with guilt etc about my new bub,,,i wonder now if she was actually trying to make me feel bad and depressed??, or if she is just an insensitive b@$ch??)
None of my 4 SIL's have spoken to me yet at all, so I just cant be bothered wasting my time worrying about why etc if they dont want to have anything to do with their neice/nephew, that is truley sad, and their loss.
My own mother has been so much more supportive, and i told her at 12 weeks,,,,3 weeks after MIL found out.

You deserve so much better than their lack of support, so try not to let it worry you hun, afterall, it is them who will miss out on your beautiful family, and new bub.
All the best hun, remember, you have all the support you could ever want here on BB, with all these lovely ladies who truley do care