hi mummas,

this may get long as i may blabber but basically how did you know when you were ready to go from baby #1, to baby #2? did you ever know? or did you just not over think it & just do it? i know - hard question.

our DD is 19 months old (today actually). we have always wanted her to have a sibling & have always imagined the age gap to be pretty close-ish. every day that goes by i think.. wow the gaps getting bigger etc etc. some days i think hell yeah i can have another one, others days i'm like oh hell no!!! is it normal to feel like this? i tend to over think EVERY single thing so maybe i'm over thinking things? hubby is definitely on board with having another one - he brings it up all the time lol.

i find this decision is consuming me on a day to day basis. it's ALWAYS hovering over me. maybe i'm just doubting it, scared of how it may change things, less time with DD1. gosh knows!!!!

ANY words of wisdom please

thanks for reading