we had always said a small age gap. Hubby was keen from about 6mnths lol and i was like hell no! plus i was still feeding DS1 and did so until he was 13months. i then weaned him (i was down to two then one feed a day and still didnt have any signs of periods coming back) and then we just went for it. I didnt really think about it - more okay well he is one, i dont need to feed him now, and we said we would go again, may as well be now? lol

and as you can tell from my sig - it happened fairly quickly!