Big my beautiful friend....its such a hard decision :/ - I can't speak from experience other than C's 4 kids, and i know for her the PIL and Dad were helpful when the kids were little, but having said that, all her kids eventually went into CC (except for A) at about 9 months as she went back to work after each pregnancy. Now that they are all school age, even though O's dad lives with them, the kids go into after or before school care and holidays are now spent in the school holiday program as both C & O are working full time now.


Now, AFM, i'm selfish and don't want you to move far from me so i say don't move if its only for two years!! but seriously matie, you have to do what you feel is right for you guys and what you're comfortable with. big squishy