my side, Gremlin will be number 4, granddaughter number 3

on hubby's side, well both his parents are gone, and he is estranged from his sisters, but from memory she will be
grandchild number 6, grandaugter number 2

but DH's family all had their kids earlier, so Gremlin also has second cousins that are older than her quite significantly - 3 older girls, one boy

kinda sad that Gremlin won't ever get a chance to know her paternal grandparents, and will have limited contact with only two of her second cousins (without their parents around due to the estrangement) - good thing the maternal family are champing at the bit for her to arrive and join the family!