When my older sister and I became guardians of our younger sister neither of us had our own children. So we entered the parenting game with a 9 year old and learned the ropes as we went (and did a damn fine job I think). We both switched to part time jobs and found ways to make it work. I wouldn't discount family or friends without children... are they child friendly types? Are they close to you that you feel your child's happiness would matter a lot to them so they'll make the sacrifices?

We think we know who we'll choose but we're yet to commit it to paper... Can I ask the spin off question of where everyone did their wills? Anyone do one online?