DH and I struggle with the same problem re: sex life. I'm generally happy to have it once a month, he would like it once a day, LOL. I complained to him one day that maybe I would feel like sex more often if he were affectionate at other times as well. I think that the problem between male and female libido is because women see intimacy and affection WITHOUT the need for sex to be more important, whereas men feel that the sex IS the intimacy and affection. Does that make sense? Not sure, too early for me on a Saturday

After talking it over with my DH, I started taking Wyld tablets to improve my energy levels. I've been on them for about a month now and there's been a definite improvement. I also find that for me more sex = DESIRE for more sex. And DH has made a concerted effort to show affection without expectation of something further, so that I feel my needs are being met as well.

It is a serious issue in relationships, something that should definitely be discussed between the two of you. You both love each other very much, and that's a brilliant foundation to start with. Sit down and talk honestly and openly with each other, discussing your own personal needs and work out a compromise that will make you both happier