i woul have love my 2 to be colser to gether but we had issues concieving #2. My Ds is very out of control and hard to handle but worse now we have DD. He doesnt listen, acts up, always getting into mischief etc. The worst part about them being 3 1/2 yrs appart is that DS doesnt have a day sleep anymore so when Tiahna is sleeping its a struggle to keep him quiet so we can let her sleep... I'm wanting another also and closer together. we only have a 3 bd house that we just brought so we'd have to double up rooms. we already have a large car so thats ok.

I can fully understand the shopping hassle... I have to use the one with the baby seats, there is either none there or if you get one they dont steer properly, the capsule takes up prescious trolley space and no room to put DS in so i can keep him close (he's a runner) i cant imagine what it'll be like with 3 but when i weight up the good and bad my decision would be to go 4 it again...

God the last labour was short and painful and i remember i kept saying "i'm stupid why am i doing this agaain" but after its like "Yes, this is why do do it" i love kids and wouldnt have it any other way... even if that means less sleep, more stress and difficulty getting out the door in the mornings.