Last time I was pg with ds I knew I wanted another and was happy to go through pg again and soon I wanted them close together, this time I feel I still want another one or 2 I don't feel completed with just 2 (dh is happy to stay at 2 but if i want more he's happy to go to 3)I want ds and dd to have a sibling of same sex I know how great it is to have a sister to chat to everyday on the phone and compare our kids and support each other (even though we're 13 yrs apart) I don't have that kind of relationship with my brothers there men and there form of communication is minimal although we all get along and love each other
But I just really don't want to be pregnant again it's just so long and uncomfortable and painful at the end
I thought about adoption but I figure we don't have the finances and there's a big enough waiting list I didn't want to slow down the wait for someone else without kids
I wouldn't have the next for at least 3-6 years
Did you warm up to the idea of being pregnant again? Or did you just eventually get comfortable with the idea of not having another even though you didn't feel finished or do you just suck it up and do the pregnancy thing again