I was done at 4 then miscarried, that's when I knew I never wanted more then 3. I was happy with a girl (well 2) and my boy. I felt complete. That was until I divorced and met DF. He wanted kids, I was undecided if I could do it again. It was a lengthy process via a donor and finally our first (and only bub if I get my way) is on the way.

He would like another bub, but I don't think I could go through the whole process of getting preg and then doing a 9 month stint again. I'm happy with just our one bub + my 3 kids I already have