It took us years of heartbreak and miscarriages before falling pregnant with our now 3yo daughter. Our son came along 18 months later. They are two happy and healthy toddlers. We are VERY lucky.

We always said we would be so grateful to have one child so, with two, we feel overwhelmed with happiness.

Now we are feeling strongly about having a third child. I've had two emergency c sections and the dr recommended 3 maximum. I haven't researched dangers and risks yet. The dr also said he strongly recommends booking in for a c section of we have our third.

I am 40 next year so if we decide to have another baby then we want to start trying soon.

How did you decide to have another child or not? What were the factors?