We had agreed if we have one, then we may as well have two. After having DD1, I did feel strongly that I wanted another (despite her not being the easiest bub). Whilst pregnant with DD2, I was feeling pretty done and after having her I felt very done. We did have the odd occasion where we discussed more, but both of us agree we were done.

I had 2 emergency c-sections and a lot of difficulty breastfeeding each time. I don't want to go through that again, but saying that if I really felt the strong desire for another that would not matter.