So we had a talk and I told him exactly how I felt and he told me the same, we are going to talk again in 2 years time after our wedding and see how we both feel, he understands what I'm saying and sees where I'm coming from, which is a giant relief.. Honestly, I think In a few years time I may want another.. But I want that to be a whole hearted decision that I make.. Not a forced one, and now that I have explained myself to dp he wants it that way too