So im basically wondering how will i know if having number 2 is what i really want or not....

we have a lot of factors to consider and ive got some pro and con lists but id like to hear some other peoples stories/thoughts and how you decided....

PRO's:
DD will have a sibling
DD wont grow up lonely
I will get the chance to (hopefully) birth not induced and possibly drug free
Can re-use all of the big buys

CON's:
Best Rest for 90% of my pregnancy
Wont be able to travel as much due to the extra stretch in finances
Wont be able to give DD the best of everything
Risk of PND again


Basically i want to have another one to go into labour myself and try to birth unassisted because i now regret insisting on being induced with DD, but i also dont want DD to be a only child, yet DH and I want to travel and live a comfortable life without finacial stress, well as much as possible.

im in 2 minds a lot, some days im all for it, others im totally against it....

i know i dont need to make up my mind right now, but id like to atleast have some direction in my thoughts....

i should also mention DH has only ever wanted one child, but has said im desperate for another he will agree to it