About a week here. DH is pretty good at "helping" (ie doing all the housework rather than just some) if I'm really, truly ill. But if I'm ill two weekends then bam, it's over. Apparently he can't do housework with DS around so I have to take him out for three hours once a month or so so DH can do his deep-clean (he'd rather clean than go to the park... I'm happy with this!), yet I'm expected to keep the house at a reasonable level with DS around.

Ah well, DS is pretty good at clearing up now - washing machine, dishwasher and toybox all loaded by DS some days!