Mine goes to pot even when I'm up and about.

My dear DH tries to help when I'm sick, but somehow, he thinks that if he stuffs everything in corners, then the house is clean. I think it makes more work for me, really. But I haven't said anything to him, because housework and caring for the kids makes him feel so flustered and overwhelmed, I feel more sorry for him than anything. I always try to imagine me running his jobsite, and realize how much trouble I'd be in there, and I can sympathize a little better with him not being able to run my house.

So sorry to hear that you're feeling lousy LoriRae - hope it doesn't last too long! I find that my household appreciates me much more after I've been sick - maybe you'll have that benefit, at least!