that's what makes u a good mother a mother who never evaluates or takes time to think about their actions just presume what they did was fine, A mother whom thinks about it and says to them self i could have don't this better is a truly loving mother whom makes every effort to be the best mother they can be. Im sorry if my wording is coming out wrong but im tiered but felt i needed to respond. And i haven't had all my coffee yet. But what im trying to say is YOU ARE are a GOOD MOTHER because u constantly evaluate your actions and want the best for your child!!!!!!