If it were you, you'd choose?

[Lisa]

I'm in the same boat as SamiH. Age was the main factor for me.
I was on a diet that I'd paid a lot of money to do... but in my heart I wanted another baby. I don't want to be close to 35 when having my last so after much discussion with my DH, we decided that we would try for a few months and if nothing happened, I would continue on with my diet and we'd try again after I got to my goal weight.
Long story short, I fell pregnant the first month and I am happy because it now means I will be 33 almost 34 when this Bub arrives... and I can pick up where I left off after the bub with my diet and lose the baby weight too.

[Papillon]

Thanks again guys..

DF and i decided on friday night, that we would put this discussion on the burner for a couple of weeks, while we are moving house.. (thats if the fire weather tomorrow doesnt bring the fire over oour place), we arent going to be careful i the next two weeks, and so i guess in a way leaves it up to fate, if we fall then we fall BUT, yeah if we havent fallen by next AF due, then we will dicsuss it all then.

I keep re reading everyones replys.

it means so much to me for those who took their time!

mwah mwah

[smiles4u]

If it's of any help ... there is 5years between my younger sister & i and WE had no issues with any age gap if you can call it that growing up ... put it this way my sister & i were so close that i named my only child's middle name after her ... and i had my 1st bub at 40 ... (i lost 10kilo's before i fell pregnant with and felt better for it)

GOOD-LUCK with whatever you decide to do

Hugs from Lorelle & Miss C xoxox

[Anila]

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