Thanks again guys..

DF and i decided on friday night, that we would put this discussion on the burner for a couple of weeks, while we are moving house.. (thats if the fire weather tomorrow doesnt bring the fire over oour place), we arent going to be careful i the next two weeks, and so i guess in a way leaves it up to fate, if we fall then we fall BUT, yeah if we havent fallen by next AF due, then we will dicsuss it all then.

I keep re reading everyones replys.

it means so much to me for those who took their time!

mwah mwah