DD1 is currently 18 months old. She has been the "attention" in our family since her birth... up until DD2's arrival, everything was so perfect though there are times DD1 would have her rebellious times... but since DD2's arrival, everything has turned into a nightmare. When DD1 sees me cuddle DD2, she wants to be held too... I still spend a lot of times with her during the day as my parents help me out with DD2 when I'm with DD1... but even with that, she's becoming very unsettle. I know at this point, she's at the stage of the "terrible twos", but I mean, she could cry for 1 hour non-stop when I try to put her down to nap. She wants to be held and she won't allow me to hold her while sitting down... I feel so upset some times and ask myself if I have made a wrong decision of having DD2 when DD1 is only 18 months old... I feel guilty that I am now unable to give my full self to DD1... is it normal? what should I do now when I'm faced with this?