Hey mummy's, I'm so unsure on how to do this without hurting or breaking dp's heart.. Any help will be greatly appreciated. Before having our little girl we always spoke about how many babies we wanted, and we both agreed that we would have two (dp already has 2 little girls to a previous relationship) but since having our little girl, my thoughts have changed, I don't know if I want another baby, and since having our bub dp's thoughts have changed too.. Except he wants more, he is hopeful for at least two more bubba's.. I'm so happy with how our life is with him and the 3 girls, but in saying that, what right do I have to just shatter his hopes for another baby? Has anybody else felt like this at some point? And has their feelings towards this eventually changed?