Rayray I wonder the same thing I could never get a lot done but DH is a domestic goddess! LOL But I was more social than him and went out a lot more.

I think Leesh leaving Shell alone with Jaz for a whole day like the hours you'll be at work is a something to try?. Where she can call you if she is struggling and you can come back if you HAVE to which you may not be able to when you start your job.
TBH I struggled with it at first, I was jealous and didn't want to go but once I got into the swing of work it has made me appreciate DD so much more. I enjoy her more now I think..is that bad? Its good you are going into your new job with excitment, you will be busy leanring new things that might help keep your mind off worrying about home.

It really is good for both parents to have a stint being the primary care giver I feel. It really is an eye opener. DH said to me today when they picked me up from the train he was "over" DD today I remember saying that to him at some stage
DH goes back to work in Feb and DD will go to FDC I am quite sad, its been good for all of us.