positives
-my beautiful boy of course
-seeing my DH as a wonderful father, better than i imagined him to be
-learning to see the joy in tiny things like wind blowing through the trees
-learning that there is more to life than drinking and partying on the weekends
-becoming less judemental of the way others parent thier children

negatives
-my new, not so great body (but i will get tone back into it!)i hope
-forgetting who "i" am
-always putting myself last
-lack of freedom and money
-more things to worry and feel anxious about

positive/negative
-realising since Archie's birth that i am a completely different person who wants completely different things from life that i thought i wanted