Its an interesting topic.

My choice was already made for me - we didnt expect to have Rinn. We were told that it was highly unlikely. Once she did arrive - things got worse for me - physically - so I have had my uterus lasered, which has left me infertile (I could ovulate but there would be no way of phycially being able to carry a pregnancy to full term).
If this wasnt the case we would have had more - but straight away.

So it has been decided.

I have been trying to make sense of it now - as 2 of my close gf's are now preg for the 2nd time. I always knew that this would be the hardest time, as initally - if we had the chance - we would have had more.

I too think that it is too early to say what I hate about it - apart from other people asking about "No.2 etc"!
I think what is nice (sometimes!) that we dont have to share our attention with any other children.
Dee - I am like you - now there is no way I could go back to the late nites and feeds and crappy nappies full time... the thought makes me shudder!

I must admit that Rinn is an easy child - we dont have huge problems - sometimes the odd challenge.