Krissy- wow you've done so well! i admire that you've taken it all in your stride - and hope that myself and DH can belike you and your DP - i'd LOVE to have 3 kids by the time im 27!

ryatha - wow you've done so much! i'm glad that you got to go to Uni and do the things in life you'd wanted to. im sure Uni would have been differant looking at it though the eyes of a perant! (as such KWIM?)

JB- your lucky you still have friends from pre-baby. i think most of mine have gone "****" into the dust of the past. mainly becuase they dont seem to understand that its not just about 'me' any more its about 'us' (DJ and I - even though FF, he's not very good - just yet- with staying more then 2hrs with out me) i guess its also that i'm a SAHM as well - people seem to think its 'ok' to bale on me becuase of 'so and so is sick" *cough*bulltwaddle*cough*.

Has any one else had people assume they're old then what they are becuase they have a baby? i'm 20 and had people guess my age at 25...