i know that my MIL will do the same - ever since i told then i was expecting its all about our baby - its what she call it. i understand it the first grandchild but ITS NOT HER BABY!!!!!!!
her phrase is" youre going to give it to me ofr a few days arent you??!?!" WTF? i know her english isnt 100% but i get the jist ,
she had it in her head b4 i got fired that i would give birth have a month off hten go back full time and allow her to raise MY child!!!! i dont think so!!!
now i have recently found that there is a high prevelance of twins on both sides of my family - and shes got it in her head that i will leave one with her during the day and just have one with me that is then swap the next day - AS IF!!! and i might not even have twins......... but shes told me that she WILL e baby sitting 2 full days a week.. huh?? so i knwo how you feel and im only 10 weeks pregnant!