MD I know how you feel, I'm sure we've all had our days when we just dont have the motivation to carry on. Ways I refresh are, when M goes down for her daytime nap I dont do any housework, regardless of how messy the place is, & instead find time for me. Whether it be with a book, on the internet or even just painting my toe nails!! I also find going out for a walk on my own to be great & you can do that now that your DH is back. Exercise is not only good for your body but also your mind. I know you were studying, but I find going to work two days a week really helps with breaking it up, and I love getting out on my own and talking to adults. Good to see you are going out to tea tonight....(facebook??)